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Overcoming
Inertia: Moving Forward
How does inertia prevent
us from making the changes necessary to achieve greater job
satisfaction?
You find inertia in
a dictionary defined as resistance or disinclination to
motion, action or change. In career terms, inertia
translates as our fear of change, experiencing failure and
disapproval or fear of the new and unfamiliar. Inertia
can keep us in jobs for which we have lost our enthusiasm
and commitment, while we try to justify to ourselves the
reasons why we should stay.
Stress from
overwork, lack of support, boredom and the gnawing feeling
that we are not being true to our values can result in
anxiety, worry and depression. This in turn can reinforce
the feeling that nothing is likely to change and we end up
in a long-term rut.
So, how do we break
free from this self-defeating behaviour? It is important not
to think like a victim. This requires a certain moral
courage to rise above the limitations of the present through
creating a mental image of a better future and being open to
taking new directions. It is easy to blame employers,
colleagues, family and life itself for our current state of
affairs. The decision to take responsibility to make better
progress however will begin to attract the events and the
people who can help you to realize your vision. Taking small
yet decisive steps will begin moving you in a more positive
direction.
What changes or
improvements do you want to make? Have you reached the
limits of personal or career growth with your present
employer? Are you incompatible with the people or culture?
Is it the physical working environment or the time it takes
to get there? Do you need to improve your education or take
special training? Decide on your priorities then think about
the steps needed to achieve your goal. Once you have
identified your issues then you need to draw up a plan for
action The act of planning itself will draw your attention
away from your frustrations to focus on the possibilities
and options. Shifting your focus to more positive tasks that
serve your interests will help reduce your anxiety about the
present.
Don’t expect to
achieve everything at once. We become disillusioned when we
try to force progress and find that instant solutions aren’t
available or practical. Our society cultivates the ideas of
quick fixes and fast, fast relief. When it comes to making
career or job changes with long-term benefits in mind, there
is often a different time frame and dynamic involved.
Impatience with the
present situation can cause us to act impulsively and to
make short-sighted decisions that affect long-range
interests. Listen to inner guidance and be alert to the
promptings of your intuition. The intention to follow your
highest interest will often produce ideas and thoughts that
come "out of the blue" and suggest actions and solutions
that you haven’t thought of before. If you trust in this
process, you will receive the insight you need to make the
progress you want.
The decision then
becomes how much effort and potential discomfort are you
willing to accept to make the improvements you’ve decided
upon? Whenever we make important changes there is always
some price we have to pay. Accepting that reality helps us
release the energies we need to sustain our efforts over the
long haul.
You may experience
continued inner resistance to change. This is normal as you
are creating new patterns of action and thinking. Keep your
goal foremost in mind. Exercise patience with yourself, with
others who may question your decision and with the process
itself.
Your commitment to
improving your prospects and your willingness to make the
efforts necessary will generate the right solutions at the
right time. |